OK , I really REALLY would like to see people start co operating better...... i understand debates on how fish are named, bred etc, BUT i really do not see the sense in the name calling, and all of that, can we at least TRY and have civil debates without it becoming about peoples morals,
i think we can do without name calling..... without it becoming a "bitch" fest can't we accept that we are all not going to see eye to eye on everything ??? and for those of you that this applies can we accpet the fact that this is a new form and new begininng, its a place to hang out , bs, and have a good time enjoying OUR hobby... not dregging up the past and beating a dead fish (horse) to death?

not only that but we need to show some respect for the people that are putting this together FOR US. Sure there has been a lot of work to go into this, and it has been made crystal clear by them, that they do not want this type of crap, so IMO everyone needs to suck it up and be an adult and show some respect. These arguments started on other boards, take them back there.

It's will be better if those guys stop kissing Rarefish's ass. Hahahahhaa. You know who i'm talking about.
Rarefish's ass kissers, or rearers.... So f...k ennoying....

I think this is exactly what Tasha is talking about. You dont need to point fingers and call names, its very immature.

Tasha, see how your peaceful thread got tanted and soiled on within 2 replies.
Great attempt on your part.

I love fish, peace

you are right guys. think about it....who is one that always starts the fire? putting words into one's mouth & when asked to prove them, he will say....i don't need to prove anything. man, these rubbish been going on for years. it will be just like i'll come in tomorrow & post....tasha said this & that here. what would you do if you were that person? playing dumb for the rest of your life? to avoid all these nonsense, i would think the best way is to shut that fire starter up. so you got a better way to deal with it? or are you doing anything about it?

i got this proposal.....refer to my post at suggestion post.

not to be disrespectfull bro, but my son complains about this kid at school that allways bothers him.We finally got him to just ignore him and go find some nice kids to play with. If a 6 year old can do it, I'm sure you guys can at least try.

APPARENTLY I WAS BEING TO NICE .......... I CAN RESOLVE THAT REAL QUICKLY HONEST I CAN.......... I HAVE 3 SMALL BOYS AND I BREAK UP FIGHTS ALL THE TIME......... THIS SITE WAS MEANT TO LEAVE ALL OF THE BS BEHIND..... if that is too hard for some of you to comprehend than maybe i am being too nice..... and you all know how a woman can get when shes mad right????? that means posting more bs on the thread that is asking for the bs to stop, and I making myself clear yet? how are people supposed to sit and relax and enjoy themselves with this jerry springer crap thrown in their faces???????? I am done asking nicely , consider this your first warning

i wonder if that is what you are good at or just being bias or arrogant for giving me 2 warnings in a day. you may want to double check on who dragged up the past & starts beating the dead horse to death.

man, i just can't believe it!!...you even called me a pot stirrer when an could just come around & starts putting words into my mouth & when asked to prove it, he said...i got nothing to prove is left to be the good guy instead! take a walk & ask around tasha & find the truth before you make the next decision is my advise to you....

i know that would like my arse to be ban here. too bad, you guys are falling for it...if you still fail to find his plot.....that guy really got an attitude problem....go ask around the seniors who are long in fhs, they may tell you a thing or 2 about him.... what a shame!!

I dont understand why people are having a hard time understanding the concept of this forum?

Whats happened in the past on the other site stays there and if somebody cant not follow that you should notify a mod for them to take care of it not handle it yourself and continue to add fuel to the fire. We are all here because we love this fish and we already deal with enough shit from pure cichlid hobbyist so we should band together. All we are doing is shooting our selves in the foot by continuing with these feuds and if anybody cannot then this is not the site for you.

Sonny - Most people can agree your an expert on flowerhorns and I am one of them but your wisdom gets lost in your battles to be alpha male and that turns off a lot of people. My challenge to you is turn the other cheek and help members here expand their knowledge and appreciation for this fish.

Will - I know you understand the vision of this site and are going to try to put your differences aside but you cant throw mud then call fowl when it comes back. Whats done is done lets see where this hobby takes us :)

you both are very very childish. You are a business man too, and just to let you know, I was willing to give you a shot and was actually thinking of getting in your GB, as I have a bonus check coming on the 30th. After seeing all this crap, you will not be getting my money. You both are just like kids and need to grow up. You both have said and done things that you shouldn't have, and you are being incredibly disrespectfull to Ken, and the staff here. And second of all, I'll bet you would not talk that way to Tasha in person. I'll bet a paycheck she would have your ass in a sling for talking that way. She is a very nice person, and will do anything to help a member out, and you show your true colors talking smack about someone like that. I have no respect for someone like yourself. And I think you owe Tasha an appology also.

MODS. MISS. TASHA.

you are my dream moderator.
everything straight no bullshit and no explain and explain. better for this forum to keep on track it is all the hobby plus members will not continue to do over and over again. do not let quiet members take all the patience.

OMG, i couldn't believe this issue is dragged to this site. Get over it people.

buddy, why are u even here...

agreed

My god, dues, I live in a place, where people get at you EVERYDAY. If I paid ANY attention to all of them, not only would I be wasting time I CANT get back, but loose sight of the real goal, and probably end up dead. So, I I say, say what you want to, if its not true, it will surface one day as fact. I only will approach someone if they are trying to HARM me, my family, or my way of feeding my family, the rest, I could care less. So, come on guys, get OVER it, a nice fish, is a freeaking nice fish, call it what you waaaaaaant, if y ou bred the thing, call it marble rye if you want, its yours.....lol...jeeeeez. Sonny, I have dealt with you before, your an OK guy, you need to just let them run their mouth, and let your REPUTATION speak for itself, period. Make a great GB, and please all with great costumer service, and nothing anyone can say here, will change what is truthful.

Guys and gals. For real.. we are going to start seeing members leave if we dont straighten this up now.

Like my gal Katt said, lets have a reality check of what is internet and what is real life. Lets just kick back and have fun and try to stop some of this childish drama. Isnt it old yet for you guys? Its tiresome. So very very tiresome.